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9:57 p.m. - 2003-10-15 The other link is to a great travel site full of a broad range of articles. I know, I'm still obsessing about that aren't I? The link is Travel. One way or another, I need to be doing this if only vicariously. I received an interesting e-mail from one of my friends today. It contained a drawing that was actually two pictures. Psychologists used it to determine if someone could "see" something, when they had no knowledge of it's existence. In this case, the test subjects were young children and the picture could be seen as either nine dolphins or as a nude couple embracing. The children could not see the couple. I was ruminating on this concept a bit a few months ago with respect to literature and movies, when there was a lot of debate going on about the "meaning" of certain passages in the Harry Potter and Lord of the Rings stories and it is arising now as I read the "Return of the King" out loud in anticipation of the imminent release of the movie version. Perceptions. Remember the last movie was the recipient of commentators' projections of their beliefs about the imminent invasion of Iraq - they felt the movie was a vehicle made to support their views. It was good to find an objective study that explained it better than I could. Even so it doesn't sound so profound a discovery does it? Yet think about all the problems we have with everyday communication. Sometimes people don't understand what you are talking about, because they don't have enough reference points in their own life to attach your information to. For me, for example, someone discussing an actual cricket or baseball match might as well be speaking a foreign language. Try explaining your daily internet use to someone who has never sat in front of a computer. Between cultures there is so much tacit information that neither group knows the other is basing their discussion on that it is a wonder that anything is comprehended. . The dearth of understanding can have serious consequences. In the last election, for example, a group of volunteers made some very serious legal errors in their paperwork. It has been under investigation. The problem is in a lot of volunteer activities, the volunteers don't have enough knowledge about the tasks they are undertaking to even know they are missing critical responsibilities or to protect themselves from being left with the liabilities. In Canadian courts that is not considered an excuse, and significant fines have been passed out to groups as diverse as the Scouts and a rural ambulance service. Sometimes most of what we each see in the world is a projection of our prior experiences and beliefs, further distorted by the gaps in understanding we all have about a lot of things. The drawing is a good reminder why we should give each other the benefit of the doubt when we are trying to communicate. And why we should always try to ensure that each word or concept we use has an agreed upon meaning. Am I making myself clear, dear diary? "We should be careful to get of an experience only the wisdom that is in it - and stop there; lest we be like the cat that sits down on the hot stove lid. She will never sit down on a hot stove lid again - and that is well; but she will also never sit down on a cold one anymore." Mark Twain � � |